In his book, Practicing Greatness, Dr. Reggie McNeal looks at seven disciplines of extraordinary spiritual leaders. One of those disciplines is self-development. He challenges us to rethink how we approach it.
Mark Twain once said of an acquaintance that had passed away: "He died at thirty; they buried him at sixty." How do you keep from dying "in place?" I believe it's through self-development. The key is to keep learning. Focus on your strengths and grow through your failures.
Seems easy enough, right? Yet, we're walking uphill on this issue, for a number of reasons. First, lifelong learning never ends. In our society, we go to school, we graduate, and we're done. But, as a lifelong learner, we never graduate. We have to have motivation and a strong internal guidance system to keep on the learning path.
The greatest challenge, however, to lifelong learning is unlearning. We frequently don't make room for new learning because we're chock full of other stuff. To combat that, we must practice what Peter F. Drucker called "systematic abandonment." Stop practicing irrelevant lessons and move forward.
For instance, many Christian leaders are operating from the internal tape of the world they think exists, versus the world which really exists. Unlearning of the old world is a prerequisite to learning how to deal with the new one. The unlearning curve is as steep as, if not steeper than, the learning curve!
All leaders who engage in lifelong learning evidence two characteristics: